1.31.2011

Today I am grateful for courage . . .

"Courage is doing what you're afraid to do.  There can be no courage unless you're scared."
~ Edward Vernon Rickenbacker

I've been dealing with a situation that has taken me completely out of my comfort zone.  There are times when I just want to ignore it and hope it will go away, but I know that isn't going to solve anything.  So, I just have to suck it up, face it head on and get through it.  Not knowing what the outcome will be really scares me, but I am thankful that I am somehow finding the courage to push through it anyway.

1.30.2011

Today I am grateful for my grandma's potato salad . . .

Two of my kids spent the night at my grandma's house last night.  At least one of them goes over there every other weekend, and Grandma always sends a "care package" home with them that is essentially all the junk food she buys them while they're over there that they don't get at home.  When my kids came home today, they had a surprise for me in their care package - my grandma's potato salad!  My son and I are the only ones in our family who like potato salad, so we don't get it very often.  Grandma usually makes it when we get together for holidays or on my birthday, but it was so sweet of her to make it for us out of the blue this weekend!

1.29.2011

Today I am grateful that we have enough vehicles for all of the drivers in our family . . .

My 16-year-old was rear-ended about a month ago, and we took the truck she drives in to the body shop to be repaired this week.  It has been such a pain to coordinate everything to work around having one fewer vehicle available.  I am really thankful that this is a temporary problem, and I can't wait to get the truck back!

1.28.2011

Today I am grateful that the indomitable human spirit can triumph over tragedy . . .

Today is the 25th anniversary of the Challenger Space Shuttle explosion.  I was in high school at the time, but I still remember it like it was yesterday.  I am so thankful that the 7 heroes who lost their lives that day - Commander Francis R. (Dick) Scobee, Pilot Michael J. Smith, Mission Specialists Ron McNair, Ellison Onizuka and Judy Resnik, Payload Specialist Gregory Jarvis and Teacher in Space participant Christa McAuliffe - did not die in vain.  Rather than being remembered with statues and the like, the astronauts' families made sure that they had a much more important and lasting legacy.  They founded the Challenger Center for Space Science Education, which now boasts a network of 47 Challenger Learning Centers located throughout the U.S., Canada, the U.K. and South Korea.  Over 400,000 students participate in "missions" at these centers and 25,000 teachers are trained through the network each year.  We are fortunate to have a Challenger Learning Center right down the street from our house, and my kids have had the opportunity to participate in their interactive simulated space missions.  It's a very cool place, and it's wonderful to realize that out of tragedy came the ability to inspire and educate so many children.

1.27.2011

Today I am grateful for family . . .

My Aunt Kim and her husband, Joe, are in town this week to golf.  They come in to town about once a year, and we always try to get together while they're here.  They took us out to dinner tonight, and it was so nice to catch up and just enjoy each other's company.  The older I get, the more I appreciate my family ties, and I am really thankful that I have so many wonderful relatives!

1.26.2011

Today I am grateful for DayQuil . . .

Lucky me!  I have a cold!  Thank goodness for DayQuil, because it does seem to help a little.  I'm exhausted from all of the sniffling and sneezing, so I hope that means I'll sleep well tonight!

1.25.2011

Today I am grateful for Mexican food . . .

We had dinner at my favorite Mexican restaurant, Carlos O'Brien's, tonight.  We used to eat out all the time, but now it's a rare treat.  It seems like it tastes so much better!  The only bad thing is that I am so full that I am actually in a little bit of pain.  It's so totally worth it, though!

1.24.2011

Today I am grateful for Facebook . . .

I admit it.  I'm completely addicted to Facebook!  I rarely go more than a day without getting on it.  With four kids, a job that's two hours away, various volunteer activities and other demands on my time, it seems like socializing always takes a back seat.  Thankfully, I can catch up with what's going on with everyone on Facebook.  I love that I've been able to reconnect with friends from high school and former co-workers, but my favorite thing about it is that it's great for sharing photos.  I'm a picture freak, so the first thing I do when I log on is check to see what new pictures have been posted by my friends!

1.23.2011

Today I am grateful for hard work being recognized . . .

I spent a good portion of this weekend at a dance convention/competition with my youngest daughter.  She loves these things, but they're kind of exhausting for me!  The competitions run until 11pm or later and then the convention classes start at 8am or earlier, so the kids end up dancing all day and night on about 6 hours of sleep.  I really admire their dedication to their craft!  At the conclusion of the convention today, awards and scholarships were given out.  I was so proud to see my daughter awarded a "Die Hard Dancer" award.  Each member of the convention faculty recognizes one student out of the hundreds attending to bestow this honor upon.  My daughter was recognized by the ballet teacher.  She wasn't expecting it at all, and it really made her feel special.  I am happy that it teaches her that hard work and commitment really does pay off. 

1.20.2011

Today I am grateful that I'm not a tax accountant . . .

I attended our annual ASWA Tax Update session tonight.  Our speaker was great, and there was a lot of really good information, but it made me thankful I don't do taxes for a living!  I'll stick to corporate accounting where there are usually logical reasons for handling things a certain way.  I think Congress intentionally comes up with some of this stuff just to laugh at the poor tax accountants who have to apply it and attempt to explain it to their clients!

1.17.2011

Today I am grateful for the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
~ Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.


Dr. King died before I was born, but his teachings will live on forever.  He was a true American hero.  His courage and dedication to justice have inspired millions.  The issues may be different in 2011, but we can't forget that there are still many injustices that we need to stand up against.  Dr. King understood that keeping our mouths shut about an evil is just as wrong as actively participating in it.  Thank God there are many others who are passionate about leaving our world better than we found it.  Society owes them all a huge debt of gratitude.

1.16.2011

Today I am grateful for the power of positive thinking . . .

I'm feeling really optimistic about this year.  I think part of it is that I've shifted my perspective in a major way and learned to appreciate the little things, but part of it is that I am committed to maintaining a positive outlook.  It's amazing the difference it makes!  Even when the inevitable disappointments come along, they are much easier to take when you have the right attitude.

1.13.2011

Today I am grateful for online shopping . . .

I hate to shop!  So, I am glad that I can get most of what I need online.  I don't even mind paying the shipping.  It's totally worth it to me!

1.12.2011

Today I am grateful for community . . .

Since I have been working in Tucson for the past couple of years, I consider it my second home.  So when Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords and 16 others were shot there over the weekend, I was really shaken.  I mourn the 6 people who died - U.S. District Judge John McCarthy Roll, Gabriel Zimmerman, Christina Taylor Green, Dorwin Stoddard, Dorthy Morris, and Phyllis Scheck - and I pray for the survivors, the families of all the victims, the family of the suspect and everyone else who has been affected by the tragedy.  Like many others across the country, I celebrate every improvement in Congresswoman Giffords' condition.  But the one thing that has really touched me is how the entire community of Tucson (and to some extent the community of the whole country) has mostly banded together and shown that even during times of unimaginable grief, our collective spirit can not be broken.  There are a lot of things wrong with this country, but I am thankful to be reminded of some of the many things that are right about it.

1.11.2011

Today I am grateful that my husband cooks . . .

My husband made dinner for us tonight.  I absolutely HATE to cook, so I really appreciate it when he does it.  I'm not much of a domestic goddess, but my poor family accepts me anyway!

1.10.2011

Today I am grateful that we can "visit" the snow . . .

Phoenix is the perfect place for me to live.  Growing up in Northern Utah, I never cared for the cold winter weather.  But now that I live here, sometimes I miss the beauty and fun of the snow.  Luckily, we can just drive a couple of hours north and "visit" the snow, which we do once a year.  We took our annual overnight trip this weekend, and the weather was beautiful - cold, but sunny and not too windy.  The kids sledded for a while and then we ventured into an open area to play in the powder.  After a couple of hours, we changed into dry clothes and headed home to the much more tolerable Phoenix weather.  Absolutely perfect!

1.08.2011

Today I am grateful for date nights . . .

My husband and I saw Shrek: The Musical tonight.  We both loved it, and I appreciated the opportunity to spend some time together.  With everything going on in our lives, I feel like we barely see each other!  I am thankful we still enjoy each other's company after 24 years together.

1.06.2011

Today I am grateful that my son is a human garbage disposal . . .

Today is my youngest daughter's 14th birthday, and we all went out to eat to celebrate.  Restaurant portions are insane, and I always end up wasting half of my meal.  Luckily, I have an 11-year-old son.  He is as skinny as can be, but he eats like you would not believe!  He and I split a steak, and then he even ate part of my half that I couldn't finish!  It was perfect.  

1.03.2011

Today I am grateful that 2010 is over!

As a whole, 2010 was the worst year of my life.  I actually started this blog to help me focus on my blessings rather than my challenges.  Of course, it could have been worse, but it also could have been a whole lot better!  Even though the entire year was pretty crappy, I really am optimistic that 2011 will be a much better year.  I've learned a lot about myself this past year, and I am certain that I am a stronger person than I was a year ago.  Difficult times can really build character!